The turkey

I just find this story so amusing that I had to write a short poem about it. My girlfriend who shall remain nameless is a drop dead raven haired gorgeous beauty with a brain and heart to match. An outsider would view her as someone who has it all. And she really does; except for great luck in the dating department.

I can relate to this friend, as I too have dated a couple of nameless jerks myself over the years.

The music pulsates
The lights are dimmed
Drinks are flowing and boys and girls
establish their turf on the dance floor
or by the bar.
He approaches her, almost sleuth-like while
she, turns the other cheek.
Over and over again he makes his attempts but glaringly obvious
he fails and he inquires and almost demands: Give me a chance!
She glances south of his chin,
A turkey, she muses. He seems puzzled.

Alas, finally she retorts:
"You're wearing a (bleepin') turkey on your shirt and I'm a vegetarian."

He hangs his head, shoulders slumped and turned away.
But, later, in a situation unrelated and which will remain untold he tells her "Don't worry about it" and this bird turned out to be a very mean man.

And I, as her friend chide with her that turkey is for Thanksgiving only.

Then, I write this poem and we share a laugh.

Gobble Gobble.

Here comes the bride/We are family

Last night, I had the pleasure of witnessing and attending my aunt and uncle's wedding. They have been together almost two decades however did not make it official until last night.

Their son Tyler, invited us all to join him in announcing the marriage of his parents.

Every girl deserves to be a bride and although it rained and poured and we got soaking wet, we had an absolute blast. It wouldn't have been a Drysdale wedding unless something went wrong and the bride did not let it phase her one bit. She continued with her speech during the thunderstorms and teeming down rain, continued singing when the power went out for a moment and grooved to the Elvis Impersonator in her white dress while her family and friends surrounded her with love and best wishes.

The weather was warm, the food was terrific and everyone was in great spirits. The speeches were heartfelt and hilarious and tailored to exactly who Margaret and Laurie are as people.

Congratulations to Margaret, Laurie and Tyler Meade for a wonderful memory we won't soon forget.

Nip/Tuck - Curtain tiebacks

Sometimes, the smallest details make all the difference to a room. Below are some images of some different ideas to tie your curtains back.

Striped Chairs

Towel Art

I have a quick second to write a blog post during our move. We're unpacking, organizing and I wanted to share a few images of beautiful towels. Lame, I know! But hey, tonight I'm making up for it and going out on the town in a limo with three other couples. Not so lame!

Second Hand

Michael's and now my grandmother Chesley provided me with the following information regarding my blog post on Extoggery. With her permission, I am posting it. Interesting to know! Thanks Ches.

Hi Wendy ! That was a great take on the extoggery ! You have not missed a single point. You might be interested to know that a childhood friend of mine married the son of the owners of the extoggery. It was one store only on Merton street just east of Yonge St . Mrs. Allen ( mother in law to my friend) started it in her home. She decided that all her friends should buy second hand clothes for themselves and their children ! She was an excellent business woman. We used to go there to buy special clothes for the the kids. eg a good winter coat to go to a Bar Mitzvah ! Great memories - thanks love chesley

Lynn Spence knows style!

Ever since Marilyn Denis left Toronto's popular CityLine's show, I haven't been much of a fan. Episodes invited experts to discuss to a live audience subjects like family, fashion, health and home decorating. I enjoyed watching Fashion Fridays for reasons that are obvious (what girl doesn't love a good fashion show!). Marilyn often co-hosted with special guests such as Sandra Pittana and Lynn Spence and I was so excited to find out Lynn would be guest speaking at today's Grand Lifestyle Show, which took place at Bingeman's in Kitchener.

For one hour, Lynn captivated and engaged her audience with her high energy, knowledge of home trends and hilarious rhetoric. She is the kind of person you would want as a friend and definitely want in your corner if you have any type of decor question. The poor men that fell asleep in the audience, were the recipient of her throwing pillows to wake them up. I certainly wasn't nodding off, and was furiously jotting notes on my blackberry so I could excitedly share trends in home decorating on my blog.

Lynn said that at all the design shows she has been attending in New York, she was surprised and thrilled to find that comfort is back! Consumers no longer want pretty furniture that looks cold, clean and chic but serves no dual purpose of relaxation and joy. Classic pieces like a seemingly plain beige sofa can be mixed with patterns that tie in both throw pillows and textured floor rugs. She refers to the floor being a fifth wall and to dress it up as such. Heavy wood furniture is trending with iron bases, and flooring is a mix of light and dark with some grey tones in stain.

She emphasizes the importance of mixing pieces however keeping a theme running through the rooms. For example, you don't want all matchy-matchy pieces of heavy wood and then a wood coffee table. Having two rectangular sofas for example, calls for a more oval or "surfboard" shaped coffee table in glass, to bring in some light. She suggests grouping things in the magic number of "3" and if you have a common theme (example flowers), perhaps on your end table place a vase of flowers and two framed photos of flowers.

Bringing elements of nature into the home such as greenery, birch logs or tulips brings balance to the home. She suggests in your dining room, if there is a chandelier, have some sort of mirror on your wall to reflect this light. WIth other colours going on in the room, white plates are a popular favourite. Again bringing in the power of "3", she suggests three vases filled with tulips as a centerpiece, and replace with something shorter during dinner, to encourage conversation and dodging the centerpiece.

Above your sofa, she suggests at least two substantial size prints. The biggest mistake people make is having too large of a space and tiny artwork that does not match the scale of the wall.

To summarize, Lynn suggests having some classic pieces, dressing them up with patterns that can continue throughout the home, scattering things in groups of 3 to create a theme, don't be afraid to add some colour and some elements of nature and to be aware of scale. Comfort is back in style, as well as mixing textures and patterns and above all she suggests, don't be afraid to try your hand at decorating or styling your home.

I just had to take the opportunity to thank her and snap a photo with this style guru!

Happy shopping! :)